Dear Carol,
I have a problem with my body that I don’t want to ask anybody else about. I think it’s something that I can control,
“Dear Carol, I think my friends are hiding something from me”
Dear Carol,
I think my friends are all hiding something from me. I keep asking them to tell me, but they just say it’s no big
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Dear Carol,
I might be gay and I don’t know what to tell my family. They aren’t homophobic or anything, it’s just that if I’m
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Dear Carol,
I have the smallest boobs! I hate it. I am so self-conscious, and everyone at school has grown up faster than me. Seventh
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Dear Carol,
Whenever I meet someone, I’m never quite sure if how I feel about them is the way they feel about me. For example, there
“Dear Carol, my siblings get all the attention”
Dear Carol,
My older sister and younger brother get every drop of my parents’ attention. I might as well be invisible.
– Sibling Stuff
Dear Sibling Stuff,
Ouch. And
“Dear Carol, My mom is sad about her breakup and I don’t know how to comfort her”
Dear Carol,
My mom has been dating someone and he just broke up with her. Now she’s crying in the bathroom. This is probably the 10th
“Dear Carol, My friends don’t listen”
Dear Carol,
My friends all seem to have their own problems and dump them on me. However, when I have *my* problems, they never listen and
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Dear Carol,
Over winter break, I started hanging out more with this one boy. He texted he was crushing on me…and I texted back I
“Dear Carol, I like this boy who doesn’t know I exist”
Dear Carol,
Hey. I like a boy who doesn’t know I exist. I’m afraid to go up and talk to him because I
don’t want it
“Dear Carol, my friendship is falling apart”
Dear Carol,
This morning, I was having an asthma attack, but I was late for class so I had to run for the bell. My friend
“Dear Carol, Did I accidentally reject my crush without realizing it?”
Dear Carol,
My friends say the guy I have liked since I was 11 thinks I rejected him. I didn’t!
– Did I Reject My Crush?
Dear Did
“Dear Carol, Was I in the wrong?”
Dear Carol,
Last month my boyfriend’s best friend accused me of cheating on him (I was not). He said he had proof because he heard me
“Dear Carol, I’m exhausted”
Dear Carol,
I love my friends…but sometimes I just want time to myself.
– Exhausted
Dear Exhausted,
I hear you. I’m a big fan of parties—and of solitude. If
“Dear Carol, My friends caught me in a big lie”
Dear Carol,
I want to start by saying thank you so much for your column! You make me feel good about myself by normalizing all the
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