We totally get it: Making new friends when you’re shy can feel super overwhelming sometimes. Like, where do you even start, right? But don’t worry, bb, because you’re not alone—we’ve all been there before. With a few simple tips (and a little confidence boost), you’ll be making new connections in no time. Promise!
Join clubs and sports
Clubs and sports aren’t just fun extracurriculars—they’re also an awesome way to meet new people. Getting involved in an activity you enjoy helps you connect with others who share your interests. Since you already have something in common, bonding comes naturally. And who knows, you might just find your next bestie.
Give a compliment
One of the easiest ways to make a new bestie? Compliments! A simple “I love your top!” can go a long way. Seriously—everybody loves a little love, and it’s the perfect way to break the ice. Before you know it, you’ll be chatting, laughing and planning your next hangout like total BFFs.
Work in a group
Sometimes, the easiest way to make new friends is by studying together. Talking about school is a natural convo starter—and let’s be real, getting the conversation going is often the trickiest part. (Psst…Want to meet even more people? Join a study group! It’s a low-pressure way to connect and boost your grades. Win-win!)
Go to public places
Hanging out at a library or coffee shop is a super chill way to make new friends minus the pressure. Just relax, grab a snack or your fave pink drink and see who you cross paths with. You never know who you’ll meet with a good vibe and an open mind.
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